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WmnOfDistxn's avatar

I absolutely LOVE this analogy. Wonderful! It’s so intriguing and taboo rustling at the same time. You know what, I had a similar thought/comparison going into the night, and wondered if we would venture there. Glad to see someone else was thinking along these lines....sometimes I make strange connections. Ha.

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John's avatar

I love this one! I can think of so many examples to support this idea! I immediately thought of the sensation of a tight collared shirt and necktie combined with the thrill of embodying that kind of masculinity. Or the discomfort of a tight, skimpy, sexy pair of underwear. The itch of a full beard, or or hair growing in on recently shaved underarms. As someone who is Genderqueer and also kinky I can see kink play and Gender play in damn near anything (ask me about giant soft drinks and the move theater experience some time lol), but I’ve never really thought of the entirety of Gender itself as fitting under the umbrella of BDSM. It makes so much sense.

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